| Here are over 100 ideas to help you keep | | | | raucous and wild, whatever you're both into.26. |
| monogamy hot!1. Find out what music your lover | | | | Wash each other's feet. Use a small dishpan and |
| likes, and play it.2. Sing to each other, especially if | | | | some wonderful natural soap. Rub on an aromatic |
| you can't sing. Listen to a song that turns you on | | | | foot lotion.27. Suck on your partner's |
| and write the words out so you will remember | | | | squeaky-clean toes.28. Feed each other food and |
| them. Then without any music sing that song as a | | | | drink. Use your fingers. Make a mess.29. Read |
| surprise gift to your lover. Watch the tears come | | | | stories out loud to each other.30. Wear costumes |
| to their eyes.3. Find out what scents your lover | | | | and masks as part of your foreplay. Oooh, |
| likes, e.g., perfumes and especially essential oils. | | | | mystery!31. Tie each other up. Men especially love |
| Get an essential oil diffuser.4. Wear the clothes | | | | to be tied up.32. Paint each other's bodies. Use |
| your lover likes. Try something wild in latex.5. | | | | washable/edible body paint or chocolate sauce |
| Serve the food your lover likes.6. Select locations | | | | you make yourself or buy.33. Wash each other's |
| for lovemaking that your partner likes.7. Prepare | | | | hair.34. Give each other pedicures.35. Prepare |
| yourself for stimulating conversation. Do some | | | | sensual meals together. Fondle and tease each |
| homework if necessary to have something | | | | other as you work/play.36. Watch the sun come |
| interesting to talk about.8. Give lots of | | | | up or go down, or the moon go across the |
| compliments on a regular basis.9. Compliment you | | | | water.37. Lie out under the stars. Sleep out under |
| lover in front of others.10. Tell each other all the | | | | the stars.38. Make flower arrangements together, |
| things you like and appreciate about each other. | | | | fresh or dried.39. Send each other erotic post |
| Do this every day.11. Show your body to your | | | | cards without any special occasion.40. Write love |
| lover. Let them look as long as they like.12. Take | | | | letters to each other.41. Say the words "I love |
| your clothes off while your lover watches.13. | | | | you. I need you. I want you."42. Whisper words |
| Tease your partner with partial nudity at | | | | of adoration in your lover's ears before, during |
| unexpected times, like when your mother or | | | | and after love making.43. Talk "dirty" in your |
| children are in the other room. Be artful and | | | | lover's ears in the heat of passion during your |
| naughty about it so only your lover sees you.14. | | | | lovemaking.44. Hold hands in public.45. Go on |
| Explore each other's bodies with your eyes, hands | | | | picnics.46. Call each other by "sucky" pet |
| and tongues.15. Hold a mirror for your partner to | | | | names.47. Make foreplay go on and on and on |
| look at their own genitals.16. Women, touch your | | | | and on and....48. Men, help your woman come to |
| lover's genitals with sighs of desire from time to | | | | orgasm before intercourse - at least some |
| time, even when out in public (discretely).17. Men, | | | | times!49. Men, be sure she is wet, before you put |
| nibble on your partner's neck with sighs of desire | | | | your golden rod into her fig pocket!50. Romance |
| from time to time, even when out in public.18. | | | | each other for hours, with intercourse on and off |
| Give each other a sensual massage. Try short 5 | | | | the whole time. Men, learn to delay ejaculation!51. |
| minute full body massages on a daily basis, as well | | | | Cuddle after intercourse. Look into each other's |
| as longer versions (one hour or longer) when time | | | | eyes. Say words of love and adoration. Thank the |
| permits. Use an exotic massage oil. You can mix | | | | God and Goddess for their favors.52. Cry in front |
| some yourself with an excellent essential oil in a | | | | of each other.53. Share what you are feeling. Risk |
| base of first cold press grapeseed (canola) oil.19. | | | | being vulnerable.54. Try different lovemaking |
| Create a temple-of-love space in anticipation of | | | | positions. Experiment.55. Try different lovemaking |
| your lovemaking. Make your space beautiful. Keep | | | | locations. Experiment.56. Use love toys. |
| it simple.20. Create your own rituals & ceremonies. | | | | Experiment.57. Laugh during intercourse. Laugh |
| Keep it simple.21. Tell each other what turns you | | | | before intercourse. Laugh after intercourse.58. |
| on. If they don't know they can't give it to you.22. | | | | Offer unexpected gifts. Keep it simple, but |
| Read and/or write erotic poetry and stories.23. | | | | thoughtful. Pick the right thing, not the biggest or |
| Watch erotic, romantic movies and videos.24. | | | | most expensive thing.59. Remember special |
| Take a bath or shower together. Even small tubs | | | | occasions. Special occasions should be special!60. |
| are great fun. Make a mess.25. Wash each other's | | | | Say please and thank you for sexual favors and |
| bodies. Be kind and gentle and provocative, or | | | | for many small things each day. |