How A Romantic Surprise Can Keep Your Relationship Fresh

"Love withers with predictability; its very essenceother and the initial high of oxytocin drops; we cut
is surprise and amazement. To make love ashort the intimate touching, and opt for quickies
prisoner of the mundane is to take its passion andinstead.
lose it forever."A Massage - especially an unexpected one, can
--Leo Buscagliawork as the perfect pleasant surprise - all the
It is said that no matter what problems yourmore so if your partner is worn to the bone
relationship faces, if you can keep the romancefrom an exhausting work schedule.
alive, the rest can be worked out. And there is noIf you are planning a full body deep muscle
quicker and easier way to rejuvenate romancemassage for your partner, then remember to use
than coming up with romantic surprises.a massage that contains either ginseng, or a
If you feel your relationship is in a rut, andheating feature. Want to get more adventurous?
everything in it is predictable, chances are - it'sAdd adult toys that both of you enjoy, and make
been a long time since either of you surprised theit a game!
other. So, what kind of a surprise is best for anThese are some of the features you can include
instant rekindling of the passion you used to feelin your romantic bedroom games - waterproof
for each other?adult toys for your intimate bath, a book depicting
That depends on the two of you and yourvarious lovemaking positions, edible paints for
relationship - what is best differs for each couple,licking off, and scented candles along with soft
as each relationship is unique. However, here are aslow music for the ambiance.
few tips that will start you on the exciting path ofThe number and type of bedroom love games
creating your own distinctive, romantic surprisesthat you can create are limited only by your
for your partner:imagination - and your willingness (as well as that
Little things and gestures matter more than weof your partner). Remember - both of you should
give them credit for. You do not have to makebe comfortable with the toys and games; else it
elaborate, expensive preparations for yourwill hardly increase intimacy (not to mention, your
surprise - use your creativity and imaginationpartner will not look forward to the next surprise).
instead.The intimacy that results from your efforts
Your Touch: If there is one thing that longtimeshould not spell the end of romantic surprises,
couples could use more of, it is touching.however. On the contrary, remember that it is
Remember how much intimate touching youthe surprise element that keeps the romance
would indulge in, early in the relationship? Asfresh!
couples become more comfortable with each