| The following article is one of a series of articles | | | | massage oils and, sorry to get all practical, clean |
| which focus on building or regaining Self Esteem, | | | | towels and clean sheets - you are both going to |
| motivating and empowering men to deal with the | | | | get rather messy and just a wee bit slippery by |
| very sensitive subject of their Sexual Health. This | | | | the end of the session. |
| empowering article on men's sexual health was | | | | Ready? Wait, just slow down. Start your Sensual |
| written in response to questions which have been | | | | massage by massaging softly and gently. The |
| asked on topics related to Men's Issues as well as | | | | goal at this point isn't arousal (at least not in her); |
| address common challenges that people have with | | | | the goal is to help her relax and to start building |
| this subject. I sincerely hope that you find the | | | | the mood. The rest will definitely follow: |
| following information of value. | | | | Now, begin to tease your lover. |
| Hot Massage Tips: Sensual Massage | | | | You are going to hate me but I want you to still |
| Carrying on the theme of many of my articles, | | | | keep it slow. Teasing means almost but not quite. |
| this mini series on using the techniques of | | | | Take long strokes, build your rhythm and focus |
| massage further emphasizes the importance and | | | | on all the erogenous zones except her breasts |
| the benefits of taking things slow and easy. This | | | | and vagina. As you do this, rub your body against |
| approach will always result in a far more | | | | hers, keep the rhythm going, stroking her |
| enjoyable experience for both and your partner. | | | | beautiful body. |
| Let's set the scene. | | | | Now, I wonder who's being teased the most!!! |
| Whether the thought of sexual intercourse is on | | | | O.K. I know you're ready so let's get to the most |
| your mind or not, you should know by now the | | | | important part of the Sensual massage. |
| value of putting her first and making her feel | | | | No, don't speed things up. Keep the same rhythm, |
| important. So, why not surprise her with a | | | | the same pace. Remember your job is to make |
| beautiful, romantic dinner - you know what I | | | | her feel important. Even though you can tell with |
| mean - cozy, intimate, candlelit, where you can | | | | every stroke that she now wants you, ask her if |
| focus all your attention on her. | | | | she has enjoyed the massage and if she wants |
| She's already feeling good. Now make her feel | | | | you to get even more intimate. Chances are it's |
| even better. | | | | going to be a rhetorical question anyway but you |
| Before we get to the details, Sensual massage is | | | | will definitely know whether to proceed or not. |
| not something to be rushed. If it's worth doing, do | | | | When your lover says yes, it's now time to |
| it properly. Sensual massage takes quite some | | | | massage her private parts starting with the outer |
| time and, now comes the bit I like, it involves a | | | | lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot. |
| lot of touching, touching in the most intimate | | | | This is when you'll both discover why it was |
| places. | | | | important to take your time and how potent a |
| Forget about everything else in the world. You | | | | Sensual massage can be in arousing the deepest |
| have to focus on one thing and one thing only, | | | | desires in both you and your lover. |
| the beautiful body in front of you. Believe me, she | | | | Remember, it's about heightening the passion |
| will know what her body is doing to you just lying | | | | within both of you, it's about awakening all the |
| there. As you touch, as you explore, it will drive | | | | senses and, ultimately, it's about an explosive, |
| you even more crazy but she will love this | | | | totally satisfying orgasm. |
| wonderful attention as she starts to feel hot and | | | | What are you waiting for? |
| sexy and wanted. | | | | If you are keen to get sex right every time, if |
| I know I said to forget about sexual intercourse. | | | | you are keen to bring new excitement and |
| What I really meant was instead of thinking about | | | | rekindle the fun instead of fuelling the fire of |
| your average session, Sensual massage is all | | | | doubt, then let us help you now. |
| about the best sex possible. It's about heightening | | | | Through our excellent resources containing the |
| the passion within both of you, it's about | | | | very best in video, written and interactive sexual |
| awakening all the senses as you'll find out when | | | | advice, such as our 10 Point Sex Plan, we have |
| you read on and, ultimately, it's about an | | | | already ensured that bedroom blunders are a |
| explosive, totally satisfying orgasm. | | | | thing of the past for a number of very grateful |
| For me, there are a few prerequisites to a | | | | men and their partners. |
| successful Sensual massage. First of all, romantic | | | | Be the person you know you really want to be, |
| music (make sure you know what she likes), | | | | you deserve it and so does your partner! |
| scented candles or incense, your favorite | | | | |