| When you offhandedly mention that you are | | | | toward the artic atmosphere. Therefore, the |
| studying the ancient Hindu and Buddhist craft | | | | preparation of your massaging tools- your |
| of Tantra massage and beliefs, you are sure | | | | hands, is vital. By placing several drops of |
| to get at least a raised eyebrow of interest. | | | | warm oil on your hands and start, a circular |
| After all, Tantra massage sounds sensual, and | | | | motion will generate a nice set of heated |
| brings on naughty thoughts. Not naughty, but | | | | hands. |
| a sense of "sensual awareness". | | | | |
| | | | Now you are ready to start your massage. |
| The key to a Tantric massage is to liven up | | | | Start at the base of the spine, using a |
| the body, not to relax the body. The true | | | | circular motion then extending that motion |
| purpose is to energize the body with the | | | | long and outward to the side. In Tantric |
| mind. To surrender to a relax state of deep | | | | teaching they teach people about Chakras in |
| trust between you and your partner resulting | | | | the body and how they move energy through the |
| in a connection. | | | | body until they connect the two people's |
| | | | souls. |
| Everyone wants to connect with their partner | | | | |
| on a higher level. Tantra massages can give a | | | | There are seven Chakras that help your body |
| relationship more that just a sexual | | | | stay health and clear. We are only going to |
| connection. It would be nice to connect your | | | | focus on three chakras, the solar plexus (the |
| mind, body, and soul with your partner. These | | | | connection to the soul), the sexual and the |
| methods are fully shown by the author of Hot | | | | heart. |
| Tantra Sex Games: Sexual Healing with Tantra. | | | | |
| | | | The Chakras that is in this lower region |
| But first before we get to the seven steps of | | | | controls the sexual and creative energy. If |
| the massage you need to give a Tantric | | | | you continue to massage the lower area of the |
| massage, you need to make this an event. So, | | | | back you can connect the energy to the |
| send a nice invitation to your partner. This | | | | scrotum area. |
| can tantalize the mind and body that will | | | | |
| reach deep into your partner's soul. The | | | | Continue your massage to the area just under |
| invitation will help turn this into an event | | | | the shoulder blades, the heart area. The |
| that your partner will remember for a while. | | | | heart is central to the Tantric energy map |
| | | | and believes that this strengthens the |
| The next step in the beginning process is to | | | | connection between your heart and sexuality. |
| set up the atmosphere. Atmosphere is | | | | In Tantric, the process is known as the |
| important since most humans are visual in | | | | "opening of the heart charkas." |
| nature. If you know what your partner's | | | | |
| favorite color, smell, and music, provides | | | | The next critical step is to apply the |
| those items to the setting to add a familiar | | | | affirming touch and pressure to stir up the |
| atmosphere. Then add the soft lighting and | | | | sexual energy. This is where you have to know |
| provide a comfortable lying area. A soft | | | | the boundaries of your partner. Start |
| blanket with a lot of bright soft pillows is | | | | massages the genital areas and other arousing |
| the ideal setting. | | | | areas on your partner. First make the touches |
| | | | light then increase the touching until your |
| The next step is to pick your products that | | | | partner expression changes. You will become |
| will be the base of your massage. Remember to | | | | aware of what level of touching your partner |
| think of what your partner likes and | | | | desires. Now, you are learning the stages of |
| dislikes. The basic warm baby oil with small | | | | your partner's solar plexus. |
| rubbing stones is ideal. It is also nice to | | | | |
| have a warm dish of water with a washcloth | | | | The next step is the experimental stage; it |
| available, in case of excessive oil. | | | | too will help increase the solar plexus. This |
| | | | is where you make your massage a learning |
| You can make your own customized massage oil | | | | process of what your partners likes and |
| that adds a sentimental value. By customizing | | | | dislikes. Take the level of touching up one |
| a scent for you and your partner, you will | | | | notch by using different fabrics, wet or dry, |
| add a connection to your emotional level. The | | | | like silks, leathers, feathers, and furs. The |
| first step to making your own scented massage | | | | next level can be textures and even food |
| oil is to select your partner and your | | | | products, like a string of pearls or jelly. |
| favorite scent. | | | | Again, this is to gather what they like and |
| | | | don't like so try a lot of different things. |
| The next step is to gather two bottles and | | | | |
| add baby oil halfway up the bottle. Now, add | | | | The fun is to gather as much information that |
| six drops of your selected scent, then shake | | | | you can so you can be aware of your partner's |
| and place in the warm water with the cloth. | | | | sexual desires; creating a sexual awareness |
| | | | that is vital for any relationship. |
| Now, you are ready to get going with the | | | | |
| seven steps that will move energy and | | | | The last step in this Tantric massage is |
| awareness through this massage. The Tantric | | | | freestyle. Freestyle is where you can |
| massage treats the energy and the physical of | | | | implement your own massage movement. It |
| the massage on different levels. The Tantric | | | | doesn't have to be a circular motion. It |
| massage works the Aura energy on the outside | | | | could be a sideway thumb motion or a |
| of the body while the affirming touching | | | | scratching motion. |
| massages the physical sensual awareness and | | | | |
| the experimenting with freestyle brings | | | | The final step in this Tantric massage is |
| partner's awareness to sexual boundaries. | | | | that, now it is time for you to switch places |
| | | | and continue to become awaken and aware of |
| Remember, there is nothing worst than a pair | | | | both your sexual needs. |
| of cold hands on a warm body to turn the mood | | | | |