| When you offhandedly mention that you are | | | | Remember, there is nothing worst than a pair of |
| studying the ancient Hindu and Buddhist craft of | | | | cold hands on a warm body to turn the mood |
| Tantra massage and beliefs, you are sure to get | | | | toward the artic atmosphere. Therefore, the |
| at least a raised eyebrow of interest. After all, | | | | preparation of your massaging tools- your hands, |
| Tantra massage sounds sensual, and brings on | | | | is vital. By placing several drops of warm oil on |
| naughty thoughts. Not naughty, but a sense of | | | | your hands and start, a circular motion will |
| "sensual awareness". | | | | generate a nice set of heated hands. |
| The key to a Tantric massage is to liven up the | | | | Now you are ready to start your massage. Start |
| body, not to relax the body. The true purpose is | | | | at the base of the spine, using a circular motion |
| to energize the body with the mind. To surrender | | | | then extending that motion long and outward to |
| to a relax state of deep trust between you and | | | | the side. In Tantric teaching they teach people |
| your partner resulting in a connection. | | | | about Chakras in the body and how they move |
| Everyone wants to connect with their partner on | | | | energy through the body until they connect the |
| a higher level. Tantra massages can give a | | | | two people's souls. |
| relationship more that just a sexual connection. It | | | | There are seven Chakras that help your body |
| would be nice to connect your mind, body, and | | | | stay health and clear. We are only going to focus |
| soul with your partner. These methods are fully | | | | on three chakras, the solar plexus (the connection |
| shown by the author of Hot Tantra Sex Games: | | | | to the soul), the sexual and the heart. |
| Sexual Healing with Tantra. | | | | The Chakras that is in this lower region controls |
| But first before we get to the seven steps of | | | | the sexual and creative energy. If you continue to |
| the massage you need to give a Tantric | | | | massage the lower area of the back you can |
| massage, you need to make this an event. So, | | | | connect the energy to the scrotum area. |
| send a nice invitation to your partner. This can | | | | Continue your massage to the area just under |
| tantalize the mind and body that will reach deep | | | | the shoulder blades, the heart area. The heart is |
| into your partner's soul. The invitation will help turn | | | | central to the Tantric energy map and believes |
| this into an event that your partner will remember | | | | that this strengthens the connection between |
| for a while. | | | | your heart and sexuality. In Tantric, the process is |
| The next step in the beginning process is to set | | | | known as the "opening of the heart charkas." |
| up the atmosphere. Atmosphere is important | | | | The next critical step is to apply the affirming |
| since most humans are visual in nature. If you | | | | touch and pressure to stir up the sexual energy. |
| know what your partner's favorite color, smell, | | | | This is where you have to know the boundaries |
| and music, provides those items to the setting to | | | | of your partner. Start massages the genital areas |
| add a familiar atmosphere. Then add the soft | | | | and other arousing areas on your partner. First |
| lighting and provide a comfortable lying area. A | | | | make the touches light then increase the touching |
| soft blanket with a lot of bright soft pillows is the | | | | until your partner expression changes. You will |
| ideal setting. | | | | become aware of what level of touching your |
| The next step is to pick your products that will | | | | partner desires. Now, you are learning the stages |
| be the base of your massage. Remember to | | | | of your partner's solar plexus. |
| think of what your partner likes and dislikes. The | | | | The next step is the experimental stage; it too |
| basic warm baby oil with small rubbing stones is | | | | will help increase the solar plexus. This is where |
| ideal. It is also nice to have a warm dish of water | | | | you make your massage a learning process of |
| with a washcloth available, in case of excessive oil. | | | | what your partners likes and dislikes. Take the |
| You can make your own customized massage oil | | | | level of touching up one notch by using different |
| that adds a sentimental value. By customizing a | | | | fabrics, wet or dry, like silks, leathers, feathers, |
| scent for you and your partner, you will add a | | | | and furs. The next level can be textures and |
| connection to your emotional level. The first step | | | | even food products, like a string of pearls or jelly. |
| to making your own scented massage oil is to | | | | Again, this is to gather what they like and don't |
| select your partner and your favorite scent. | | | | like so try a lot of different things. |
| The next step is to gather two bottles and add | | | | The fun is to gather as much information that |
| baby oil halfway up the bottle. Now, add six drops | | | | you can so you can be aware of your partner's |
| of your selected scent, then shake and place in | | | | sexual desires; creating a sexual awareness that is |
| the warm water with the cloth. | | | | vital for any relationship. |
| Now, you are ready to get going with the seven | | | | The last step in this Tantric massage is freestyle. |
| steps that will move energy and awareness | | | | Freestyle is where you can implement your own |
| through this massage. The Tantric massage | | | | massage movement. It doesn't have to be a |
| treats the energy and the physical of the | | | | circular motion. It could be a sideway thumb |
| massage on different levels. The Tantric massage | | | | motion or a scratching motion. |
| works the Aura energy on the outside of the | | | | The final step in this Tantric massage is that, now |
| body while the affirming touching massages the | | | | it is time for you to switch places and continue to |
| physical sensual awareness and the experimenting | | | | become awaken and aware of both your sexual |
| with freestyle brings partner's awareness to | | | | needs. |
| sexual boundaries. | | | | |