| As with all things worth doing, sensual massage | | | | or surprise can undo all the work you have done |
| takes attention, care and practice to perfect. The | | | | before. Maintaining contact with their body at all |
| art itself is a journey towards greater and | | | | times, pay particular attention to the imaginary line |
| greater destinations. | | | | from the top of their head to their genitals. |
| A simple relaxation rub, or tension busting deep | | | | You may wish also to pay attention to their |
| muscle massage does not awaken the sexual | | | | fingertips, the soles of their feet and other areas |
| centres in quite the way an attentive, full body, | | | | densely populated with nerve endings. Sensual |
| erotically charged massage can. | | | | massage is an essentially empathic art, and I |
| Sensual, or Tantric massage is an art dating back | | | | encourage you to go with your instincts. |
| thousands of years. The techniques and goals | | | | Remember always that this is something you do |
| have changed and evolved over the millennia and | | | | for your partner, and do everything in your |
| each practitioner must make the practice their | | | | power to keep within their boundaries of comfort |
| own, but the basics of this ancient art remain | | | | and pleasure. You will be putting a great deal of |
| constant. | | | | energy into this experience and it is disappointing |
| Your initial goal is to encourage a relaxed and | | | | when a misstep, or a boundary crossed forces a |
| open state of mind. Eliminate stressful input, by | | | | restart or abortion of the procedure. |
| dimming lights, lighting candles and, if you like, | | | | Pay particular attention to the body language they |
| playing some soft music. | | | | exhibit as you approach and interact with your |
| Encourage your lover to turn their energies and | | | | partners sex centres. They are now fully open to |
| attentions inward, to their physicality and their | | | | you and this is your chance to blow them away. |
| essential sexual being. As you touch each part of | | | | Continue to go slow and take your time. I |
| their body, concentrate deeply on the sensations | | | | promise you, the power of a drawn out, fully |
| you bring, on the goal you work towards. | | | | sensual orgasm is an experience well worth the |
| Keep your hands and oils warm. A sudden shock | | | | wait. |