| When you think of your dream girl, what comes | | | | because if not, your old lady just became a |
| to mind? Is it intelligence? Is it physical beauty? Is | | | | stripper and you are pimping," Halvorsen explained. |
| it a deep spiritual foundation? | | | | Jarrell believes that women who use exotic |
| What if you met a girl who met all of your | | | | dancing and posing as a means to fund their |
| standards, but had previously posed topless or | | | | college education are just looking for an easy |
| nude? Would that change your impression of her | | | | excuse. |
| or would you still see the same enduring qualities | | | | "That's something to think about, but there are so |
| that initially caught your eye? | | | | many ways someone can find finances for school. |
| "No, I couldn't do that," said Donald Jarrell, 28, of | | | | People just need to take time to research |
| Houston. "If you were just dealing with a girl and | | | | different scholarships and financial assistance, than |
| she's new to your team, then it's kind of alright. | | | | to pose for money ... That's just the best excuse |
| But if she's your bottom or main girl, that can't | | | | they can come up with," he said. |
| happen." | | | | Bruce Smith, 44, of San Antonio, said he would |
| However, R.S., 28, also of Houston, said it is OK if | | | | not have a problem with dating a woman who |
| his girlfriend posed topless, "as long as it was done | | | | had posed as a means to fund her education or |
| in good taste ... and she had control of the photo | | | | career. He also said he would not have a problem |
| shoot and control of what is shown." | | | | with dating a celebrity who had posed topless or |
| Although R.S. would support his girlfriend posing | | | | nude in a mainstream movie. |
| topless, he believes it is unacceptable for any | | | | "If she posed before our relationship, I would not |
| woman he dates to pose nude. | | | | have a problem with it. But I would see no reason |
| Nevertheless, Jeremy Sadoff, 28, of Melbourne, | | | | for it during our relationship," Smith said. |
| Fla., said he would totally support his wife if she | | | | Jarrell said he has befriended girls who have posed |
| posed topless or nude. | | | | nude or been involved with exotic dancing, but |
| Sadoff said he would not mind at all if his friends | | | | cannot see anything beyond a friendship with such |
| were able to see his wife nude stating, "If she | | | | women. |
| wanted to I would let her." | | | | He said, "I could never value and treasure them ... |
| Eric Halvorsen, 29, of Houston said in order for | | | | Even if they changed their life that sticks with |
| him to feel comfortable with his wife posing | | | | you. The only thing they could be recognized as is |
| topless or nude it would have to be for a | | | | some cool chicks that the fellas could kick it with |
| substantial amount of money and for a respected | | | | and hang out." |
| publication like Playboy. | | | | "But as far as being with me or you're gonna love |
| "The money would have to be so much that | | | | me or marry me, that ain't happening. |
| neither one of us would ever have to work again, | | | | |